Hey! You guys are really helpful for stuff like this that I don’t feel comfortable asking other people. Basically there’s this girl in my Chemistry class that I met in a study group. We get along really well and for the past couple of months we’ve sat next to each other and walked each other out of class. Tomorrow (well Today) is her birthday, and she’s a vegetarian, so I was thinking of going to this Vegan bakery by my dorm and buying her a cupcake (they’re supposed to be good with all natural ingredients, I’m not a vegan connoisseur by any stretch of the imagination) and leaving her a note to pick up at the front desk of her dorm. I think it might be a nice gesture, but I don’t want to freak her out or anything. Is this a good idea or should I just leave her a facebook message. Thanks a lot for your help, you guys have always been great.
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February 26th, 2010 at 5:16 pm
no we all like gifts be sure to leave a note so she knows it is from you
February 26th, 2010 at 5:43 pm
If it is something thoughtful, like your idea, but not too personal, it should not freak her out at all.
February 26th, 2010 at 6:07 pm
DO IT!!
February 26th, 2010 at 6:17 pm
It’s a good idea, personally I would love that
February 26th, 2010 at 7:11 pm
You should leave it for her. Good Idea. Let us know how it went! Make sure it’s in a nice box.
February 26th, 2010 at 7:18 pm
do it its a sweet gesture
February 26th, 2010 at 7:59 pm
That is such a lovely idea,everyone likes a nice surprise!I would say go for it its simple yet shows you were thinking about her.
February 26th, 2010 at 8:44 pm
That would be the cutest thing ever!
i wish a guy would do that for me
She’s a lucky girl!
February 26th, 2010 at 8:56 pm
i think it’s a sweet idea =] just leave your name on the note so she won’t think it’s a stranger leaving her a poisoned cupcake or anything!
February 26th, 2010 at 9:35 pm
That would be the sweetest thing in the world to do if you were interested in her. Are you? If you are, then do the vegan cupcakes thing. But if you just want to be her friend, leave the lame facebook message. If you aren’t a vegetarian, she probably won’t want to be with you anyways.
February 26th, 2010 at 9:38 pm
honestly it is a real sweet gesture. it shouldnt freak her out since you know each other. it shows you pay attention and that you care
February 26th, 2010 at 10:22 pm
i dont see why it would matter…..its not like its jewelry or sumthin….its just a cupcake…..granted a gross flavorless vegan cupcake that will give her the runs….but just a cupcake nonetheless
February 26th, 2010 at 10:28 pm
I like it when a guy leaves me a small gift because that’s so romantic and nice!! . . SO YEAH I THINK YOU SHOULD FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND GIVE HER THAT GIFT!! SHE WILL APPRICIATE IT…GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN!!
February 26th, 2010 at 11:07 pm
Oh, I think that’s sweet and not too forward. I mean, one cupcake just means you are thoughtful, but doesn’t sound obsessive or anything. She’ll probably appreciate it and think you were very kind. If she acts funny or weird about it, you can always find a way to downplay it. My guess is you won’t need to do that, though, since she appears to at least consider you to be a friend, if not more.
February 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
this is really a question u have to ask yourself, do you think you and her are close enough and far enough in ur friendship for such a gesture to take place, then you should definately go and give her a cupcake. If not, then you should still give her a cupcake lol, its a nice gesture and as long as she doesnt take it the wrong way she should appreciate it. I say go for it.
February 27th, 2010 at 12:13 am
What a sweet idea………….i would love it and i am sure she will be happy to get your gift!
February 27th, 2010 at 12:35 am
absoloutly! that’s very thoughtful and she will look as far into it as she wants to. if she thinks of you as just a friend, then you were simply a friend buying her a birthday gift. if she wants to be more than that then she’ll get all giddy and tell her friends all about it. (and who knows, things may move to the next level). this is a win~win situation for you. have at it and good luck.
February 27th, 2010 at 12:42 am
Seems alright to me. It’s a nice way to do it and I am sure she will be pleased that you remembered her birthday. It’s a nice gesture without going over the top so shouldn’t freak her out.
February 27th, 2010 at 12:44 am
you know what you should totally do? on her birthday,pull her aside, and tell her that youre her birthday gift…she will probably be into it
February 27th, 2010 at 12:45 am
Whatever happened to a thoughtful Birthday Card?
Hopefully this won’t challenge her, and at the same time
let her know she’s special.
Go slow, next time buy her a Vegan cupcake,
late a vegan lunch. You’re thinking of all the right things.
Just one step at a time.
Good Luck, but I don’t think you’ll need it.
You sound like a very nice person who was raised well.
February 27th, 2010 at 1:09 am
lol nice idea but just make sure she nos u did it otherwise who no’s wat she will think
February 27th, 2010 at 1:28 am
Just do it……..if it freaks her out it will not matter anyway……because that would mean she is not interested in you anyway
February 27th, 2010 at 2:00 am
Its not a bad idea but I think it’d be better to give it yourself but like hidden in a box and a small letter in it with some nice wishes for her birthday! or to take her to a restaurant and show some sacrifice from your side and have a vegetarian meal or dinner! go for it!
February 27th, 2010 at 2:13 am
I think that is sweet :~) That is A good idea and it would be A
kind thing to do for A friend…for starters. :~)
February 27th, 2010 at 2:27 am
actually no, it wouldn’t freak her out by leaving her a gift. if u leave her a veggie whatever then it might… idk…. i’ve seen this happen before. girls are complicated (trust me, i am one) anyway, sometimes we want you to actually take note of things, but to certain extents… not. i think a better gift would just be a heartfelt card… nothing cheesy. but make your own, it makes it look like u actually care. or if u wanted to buy her a gift-gift, then i would get her flowers… maybe that would show that you want to be more than friends, you know? good luck :D
February 27th, 2010 at 2:38 am
I think it would be a lovely gesture! Not over-the-top and thoughtful for her birthday. The only question I have is that some Vegans don’t eat eggs even because they come from an animal. Do you know the answer to that? That would be the only drawback. If there’s a cupcake without eggs (just in case) than do it! Otherwise a cute card, but not romantic would be nice. It’s always nice to have someone think of you on your birthday.
February 27th, 2010 at 3:01 am
No not at all, I think she will love it. It shows that you are intune with what shes into and that you pay attention to little things like that and as silly as it may sound, girls like you to pay attention to the little things. But why leave it at the front desk? I think it would be better if you gave it to her in person, afterall by the sounds of it you are friends now, not just study mates. That way you can also see for yourself how she will react to it, it might make your friendship more meaningfull… good luck!!